Hello, welcome!

The only instance I heard of that might fit is kolektiva.social, but I’m not super sure. I’m not on Mastodon, I just follow various Mastodon accounts via RSS

Thank you for sharing 🙏

switching the server usually works for me

edit (in response to your edit): holy shit your internet is fast, even w/ the vpn. it’s around 900 mb faster than mine🫠

Android: https://newpipe.net/

For PC: https://freetubeapp.io/

Or you can try switching your VPN to a European location while using Ublock. I think YouTube’s anti-adblocking violates EU privacy laws

Edit: fixed formatting 🫠