I recently got into the world of self-hosting, and although I’m doing it through a VPS I’ve learned many interesting things, even so, I’ve only had my VPS contracted for 10 days, and of those 10 days, 8 I spent burning my head learning concepts that I had never heard or understood, and actually it’s funny because I remember that’s what it was like to learn to use Linux.

To begin with, I started with Ubuntu 22.04 and docker, in some situations installing the service was simple, running a command in my console and opening a browser in localhost and the port used, simple, but as I was installing services I found some that they simply exceeded my patience and knowledge, as was Peertube where I simply do not understand why I need to put a name and a password to a thousand different databases, and many times they use concepts like <SECRET KEY> I don’t have the slightest idea what it means.

And so, I came across Yunohost, who makes the selfhosting process miserably easy, but so easy it honestly makes me feel dirty, to the point that I remember dualbooting Windows simply out of fear of Linux.

Now, I have 100% intentions to learn all those concepts that I don’t know and manage my servers on my own and it’s not that I’m “afraid” to do things on my own, but I need a stable server where I can have my services hosted, I can’t create a docker instance to realize the following week that I restart the server to update that I forgot to point to a persistent volume and I lost all my data, which didn’t happen to me but it was possible because in the end I do this for hobby and I’m experimenting.

And I don’t know, I don’t feel exactly “good” with Yunohost, I mean, it works great but what if for example I want to host something that is not in their list of supported services? I basically screwed myself. I feel like I’m in the same situation where I dualbooted Windows just for fear of Linux.

Edit: Thank you all for commenting! I am not answering them one by one because it would take me too long, but I want to clarify that I do read the messages and I agree with most of the comments, if not all! Although yes, I won’t keep burning my head over it, while my VPS works, I’ll learn everything I can virtualizing on my own PC.

I swear you will never, ever be satisfied with anything you do with your mindset. Just chill. It’s a hobby. There is no right way to do it.

There are bazilion things to learn and not enough time. You can’t expect to do everything what enterprise level sysadmins do with big money to spend or, for that matter, to do something that seems like everyone’s doing. We do what we can.

One day you start with Ubuntu and then you hear all the crap about it and you use Debian. It’s all fine but then you use Alma/RockyLinux because that’s what real servers are using. And then you set up 30TB of zfs storage for what, 20-30gb worth of some family photos. You learn shell and python to automate simple things but everyone’s using Rust now so you have to use Rust because python is a slow crap. You want fancy website? How about learning JS, TS, React, Vue, Angular, Svelte? Why stop there? Learn Node/deno. Are you into home automation? Learn how to solder things to Arduino. Why are you not using Proxmox? Learn how to use that too. Do you even firewall? Learn pfSense. Docker’s nice but real servers use K8. Learn that too.

Next thing you know you now own a whole rack of machine that costs more than what most of the small companies have and an imposter syndrome.

Have fun. This rabbithole is sure fun but you will never catch up everything.

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So true. I’ve done most of the things you list lol

@OminousOrange@lemmy.ca
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I was just pondering upgrading my current ‘old-computer’ server, but it suits my needs right now and and upgrading would only serve to increase the % available numbers of the hardware.

It is a really deep rabbit hole, but you’re right, self control is necessary.

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