I use Tailscale with my Jellyfin server.
If you’re on Linux, Metadata Cleaner might work. https://flathub.org/apps/fr.romainvigier.MetadataCleaner
I just use Jellyfin for movies and shows. I don’t listen to music or read ebooks, and I buy all my games through Steam because I use Linux.
https://github.com/yt-dlp/yt-dlp