I have tried numerous dashboards but that I use Tailscale on my devices, I just use golink https://github.com/tailscale/golink

My current list is: AdGuardHome, Bazaar, Change Detection, CloudTube, Excaldraw, Filesbrowser, Ghost, Golink (Tailscale), IT Tools, Libreddit, Lidarr, Memos, mStream, Nginx Proxy Manager, OliveTin, OpenBooks, Overseerr, PairDrop, Pigallery, Pingvin Share, Plex, Prowlarr, qBittorrent, Radarr, Sonarr, Statping, Stirling PDF, Syncthing, Tautulli, Unmanic, Whoogle, WikiJS, YoutubeDL-Material

Not sure if this will work in your use case but I use OliveTin for automating docket commands. Link here https://github.com/OliveTin/OliveTin

Another vote for Cloudflare as suggested by many others