There’s no guide thats covers everything, because the possibilities are nearly endless.

The first step is to get a server and choose an OS. You can build your own server at home or you can rent a VPS.

If you rent a VPS your services will be accessible from everywhere. If you decide to get a homeserver everything will be only accessible at your local network. You can acces your services from outside through VPN or port forwading.

When your server is ready, you can start to host your services. Just look at the documentation of the project e.g. on github.